If you're not truly growing, it's only a matter of time until the true form is revealed. Are you a Caterpillar or a Butterfly? 

When we struggle to make actual decisions, we are always keeping our options open, and that closes the door for our biggest opportunities to arise. 

There is a root to why this cycle exists, and it haunts every decision you think YOU are making on your own. Are you calling the shots, or is it your past trauma?